The Problem With Being Ugly.
Why your look does matter. Revealing the harsh truths people don't want to accept.
You know the biggest problem with people is their level of hypocrisy. If you ask them what kind of partner they want? They will tell you someone with good character but they won’t mention that they also want someone who is good-looking. People rarely fall in love with ugly people, not even ugly people. That’s a bitter truth, and people complain they are not finding love. The problem is nobody wants to settle for less. In my previous posts, I have mentioned several times about the importance of working out and taking care of your body, and how your looks can influence your confidence level.
You can’t control how you were born but you can improve yourself to become more attractive, and it’s important to become attractive because, in the real world, nobody lives in the fantasies of poetry. Women especially judge men very harshly for their looks and that’s why this post is important for men, and obviously for women too. I hope this post will motivate you to work out and take care of your body. This is a really important post because it’s well-researched and based on several scientific studies.
If you are reading it in your email box, please open it in the browser to read the entire post as it is too long for email, and read it in your free time. It’s informative and shocking at the same time. This post will encourage you to be in touch with practicality which is what I evangelize. You will see how your physical attractiveness level influences your life completely (Your income, Your life partner, Job opportunities, Social status, Parental love, Your Performance and much more). We are going to see the hidden discrimination that is prevailing unnoticed for thousands of years. Just note that whenever I mentioned the term looks that means overall physical attractiveness(PA) not just face.
While growing up you must have come across the maxims like “Never judge a book by its cover” “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” “Beauty is only skin deep” and “Look Doesn’t matter” but the question we should ask ourselves is do we really never judge a book by its cover? To be honest, you are mistaken if you think physical attractiveness doesn’t matter. Various scientific studies prove that the above maxims are pure fallacies. Ask yourself whether you judge people by their looks and you will have your answer. Your physical attractiveness does matter irrespective of your philosophy.
Gordon L. Patzer, PhD has mentioned an interesting thing in his book (Looks). He writes, “Hypothetically, evolutionary theory predicts that after zillions of years, fewer and fewer people of lesser attractiveness will be produced until one person with greater physical attractiveness will be producing offspring.” It is simply because those with higher physical attractiveness have more chances of attracting mates.
If you have started to disagree you must ask why most of the storybooks such as Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty etc. have beautiful people as heroes/heroines whereas the villains are shown to be ugly. What could be the logic?